The blah

NNNNNNNNUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!Where did my background go???!!So, I ended up looking for a new background and stumbled upon this new peaceful theme of mine..Keep changing layouts isnt that nice because I have to fix things such as the 'friends in thought section'*sigh**sobbing*

Anyway, I just found out that apparently with the world shifting to a healthier-shaped models, girls are still stuck in the old paradigm that girls should look something like the laundry board.

Are they even aware that some girls meant to have a "whole" body shape that even if you go on an extreme diet like sh*t you still can get the laundry board body??
Do they know that whether you are healthy or not is determined by the body mass index (BMI) and not determined by photos of some anorexic models???
Why cant girls just feel satisfied when they are healthy, doing sport, and nobody telling them they are fat and ugly???
*Jeezzzzzz..*

Case A
This friend of mine has the height about 150 *yes yes yes we are asians and we should eat more calcium!!!* and weigh around 43-47 approximately *have never asked her*
She looks fine for me.
In fact, she looks so petite already, so small with only 150cm of height.
Shocking me the most, she often times said she wants to go on a diet to shed some kilos.
One day I asked her how does she want to look like?
She pointed to someone look something like this...........

While in fact she already look somewhere like

Oh no. wrong picture. This girl looks like her niece instead..;pShe's so cute I cant help uploading it here..hahaha;p

Imagine this girl.
Same cuteness, same sweet smile, same asian face, same long hair, only smaller bones and 150 cm.
That shall look like my friend. 
Does she look anywhere near overweight to you?
Do you think she need to shed another few kilos?
I dont think so. I dont think she need to shed some kilo. I dont think she need to go on a diet scheme.
Yet, I cant talk her out of  it.

Case B
Yet another girl.
This time 160, very ideal body shall not be more than 57 kg.
Only need a little bit of sport to make her look more firm.
The only problem is her cheeks are chubby while none of her family member has them.
And she jumped to a conclusion that she is overweight and need to shed some kilos.

Both girl A and B are constantly saying that they need to go on diet on and on again until my ears turn red and I just feel like GAAHHH!!enough already!!

Case C
Another friend, 160 cm, 75 kg, looks somewhere near Kelly Clarkson at this stage

And as people say, she seems happy to be where she's at.
She is indeed trying to lose some weight but she told me she would stop somewhere at 60 or 55 although she said she fully aware that those range is in the upper end of her healthy BMI.
The most important thing, she is not pushing it and she does not keep saying the four words magic word D-I-E-T on and on and on and on......

My Questions are:

1. Why cant they just be happy with what they have now? I was thinking, that should be what people called greediness as the Freedictionary(dot)com describe greediness as 'Excessively desirous of acquiring or possessing'.

2. If you were a guy *or you are a guy;p*, which girl would you choose if the three of them have the same good personality?

aahh..this world oh this world..;)

Im just happy to be where I am;p

I just need a JOBBBBBB..!!!but that's a different story entirely, obviously!;p